Online dating: How to tell if a guy likes you

It is wrong to think that a man who is attracted to you is always going to let you know it or show it in a very obvious way when you are dating in websites like Fuego de Vida (for Spanish people), like you can see in Paginasdating.es. Lots of men won’t dare to show it to you, maybe because they are shy or just because they aren’t sure that you will like them back. But if you’d like to know if a guy likes you so you can take that first step, there are several subtle signs that you can detect in his attitude that will help you to discover it.

how to tell if a guy likes you


If a guy likes you, he’ll look at you, a lot, and that’s something indisputable. But to find out if he looks at you because he likes you or if he does it for another reason, you must carry out a seduction game based on looks that will give you the answer. Look at him for a few seconds until you meet his gaze and then push it away. Repeat this action several times until you find out if you always match again, so you can find out if he looks for you with his eyes or it was a simple coincidence.

Body language

It’s not easy to discover messages with the naked eye, but if you learn to interpret body language you can find valuable information to know if a guy likes you. In general, if his body (head, torso, hands, feet…) points towards you, it’s always a symptom of interest. On the contrary, crossed arms and the parts of his body pointing in another direction demonstrate the opposite. A relaxed attitude and physical proximity will also be positive data.


Along with the looks, smiles can let you know if a guy likes you. It’s not only about him smiling when you two meet, because he can do it because he’s being polite, but that he smiles all the time and his smiles are, above all, sincere. We are talking about those smiles that you can’t avoid when you see someone you like, and that, if you feel attracted to him, you won’t be able to hide. You can observe this detail while practicing the game of seduction looks.


Observe if he tries to talk to you, if he looks for excuses to be close to you and, above all, if he’s interested in your life and your hobbies. It’s very common to try to find common ground with who we are talking about, especially if we like him or her or want to impress him or her. This is the easiest sign to discover if a guy likes you, especially if you already have a good relationship and you meet often. Find good conversational topics and watch his reactions, you’ll see clearly if he likes you.

Is sexting dangerous?

In case you are one of those who still doesn’t know what sexting is, you must know that sexting is a trend that has been active for years and that has already been a nightmare for many people, including celebrities. Sexting is done by sending messages and videos with sexual content of oneself, such as a naked photo, wearing underwear or just a naked part of the body.


Practicing sexting can be really positive for those couples that need to revive the passion or those who want to get a spicy touch to their relationship in a fast, simple and inexpensive way. However, it can also be really dangerous. If you don’t believe us, you can ask celebrities like Scarlett Johansson, Jennifer Lawrence or Kate Upton, who were hacked by malicious professionals. Intimate photos of these and other famous people went public and became viral in a very short time, because that’s one of the dangers of the impressive speed information circulates nowadays.

Dangers of sexting:

  • Your images can be used against you: if you practice sexting with your partner or special friend, those photos of you happen to be in the power of the other person forever. At first, we all think that they won’t create problems, but you can never know how that relationship will evolve and if someday that person will decide to destroy your life by publishing your intimate photos.
  • Images travel very fast on the Internet. If someone decides to send somebody else a photo that you have made previously practicing sexting, in a few minutes thousands of people may be watching it and that viral effect will be absolutely unstoppable.
  • Your private documents can also be hacked. Not only the people who receive your photos have the ability to spread them, but also the hackers who have the knowledge to extract them from your private files over the Internet. You may trust the person you send it to, but a third person can steal it from you or your partner.
  • In any case, it is clear that not everything is white or black and that, despite the dangers, sexting is, as we said, a very sexy game to practice with a trusted person. An intermediate option to do it in a more secure way may be sending pictures where our face doesn’t appear, so there’s no way anyone can identify us.

How to solve conflicts as a couple

couple problemsAnyone who has ever engaged in a serious relationship knows that not everything is a piece of cake. There are a lot of couples who usually have short, ephemeral relationships don’t get to the resolve conflicts, because in the first months everything is beautiful. The power of passion blinds people and often the relationship ends before they even get to know each other better.

But within a few months, when coexistence in couples is constant and almost daily, some begin to see the faults and attitudes in their significant others. This generates many discussions, so it’s important to realize that getting involved in serious relationships is not easy. That’s why many men and women choose not to get deeply involved with anyone, to avoid problems and the pain that’s the consequence of love.

As frightening as it may seem to have to deal with this type of couple problems, in fact, the main ones can be solved easily with a certain amount of dedication from both parties. If you want a relationship to work out, the only thing you need to have is a real and deep interest in stay together. If you have that, there is no relationship that can’t be saved. Don’t they say that if you are healthy, nothing else matters? Well, this is more or less like that.

Let’s see what are the main problems faced in a serious relationship and how to solve them as a couple:

Communication issues

This is perhaps the greatest problem of humanity in general and not only in couples. Any serious relationship will suffer a lack of communication at some point. When communication is failing and you have lost that intimacy and routine of talking about each other’s day, you’re not longer interested in what your partner did, failed to do, goals, dreams, ambitions, desires, etc., something is very wrong.

If there’s love, there’s interest, but you shouldn’t think that it’s only a phase and that things will get better by itself. You must work to not let that lack of comumunication interfere in your relationship.

What to do to have a beeter communication?

A truly interesting conversation is immersive and uninterrupted. So be really interested and disconnect yourself from all the technological devices (TV, smartphone, notebook, etc). Ask your partner to do the same. So, take a moment everyday to make that daily change. It may be at dinner time, before bed… You must decide the best time for you and seek to know things about your significant other.

Ask stimulating questions, force yourself to pay attention, and respond honestly. Don’t do anything out of obligation, the conversation must be spontaneous. If at any other time of the day your partner seeks you to talk, open your ears and you heart to listen to him or her.


If there are certain manias and attitudes that you loathe in your partner, there must probably be some manias in you that also irritate your partner. This problems are natural to appear with coexistence. Individuals are selfish by nature and individualistic, so at some point you may just want to be on your own. When you are in this mood, it may be because you constantly fight, which will generate tremendous discomfort between you.

What to do to solve conflicts?

Tolerance is something that must always be practiced. No one wants to live in discomfort. Preserve the tranquility and harmony in your couple. You must learn to respect your partner completely, including manias. There is no point in wanting to change the other person to get him or her to be more like you. Accept your significant other and the attitudes that really bother you. Ask your partner to do the same with you and you will live much happier with each other.

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